Lonely in NY and Consolidating Friends

A few weekends ago I went to New York City. I haven’t been in more than 2 years. The last time must have been right before I came out because I’ve never done gay New York. The trip was primarily for shopping, but I did catch up with a gay friend from [...]

Freaking Cold!

This week was dichotomous.  Wow – look at me and my big words.  On the one hand, I was focused on accomplishing things.  I finished a lot at work each day, my roommate and I started our shared calendar and began planning events for February, I finally ordered pictures from my summer roadtrip to cover [...]

I’m moving on

The Summer Fling, NK, and I exchanged e-mails the week of Thanksgiving.  I invited him to our place since my roommate’s family was going to be in town and making a traditional dinner.  Yum!  He had a friend coming into town, but we were both planning to go to Taint Thanksgiving night, so we planned [...]

The Facebook Check-in

Today is the Summer Fling’s birthday. We exchanged a few e-mails yesterday. He was his normal, sweet self. Although, he didn’t invite me to his birthday, he did say he missed seeing me and we should do dinner or lunch or something. I replied and said, we should. In the end, though, I added that [...]

The Summer Fling

Like many gay men, I had a summer fling. While there are many healthy, manogamous gay relationships, many of us not in one go through cycles — a boy for the warm months to have fun with and a boy t0 cuddle with during the colder months. The one-night stands in between don’t count. Haha. [...]